Gal Gadot criticized in Israel for failure to wear the hostage pin at Golden Globes
Gadot was forbidden to wear the pin, which is considered a political statement by the awards organizers, Ynet and N12 reported.
LGBTQ liberals start arming themselves over baseless fear of being placed in 'concentration camps:' report
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LGBTQ liberals start arming themselves over baseless fear of being placed in 'concentration camps:' report
Gay and transgender liberals around the country are arming themselves over perceived concerns they’ll be rounded up and placed in “concentration camps” under a second Trump admini…Chris Nesi (New York Post)
LGBTQ liberals start arming themselves over baseless fear of being placed in 'concentration camps:' report
LGBTQ liberals start arming themselves over baseless fear of being placed in 'concentration camps:' report
Gay and transgender liberals around the country are arming themselves over perceived concerns they’ll be rounded up and placed in “concentration camps” under a second Trump admini…Chris Nesi (New York Post)
Aubrey Plaza Acknowledged At The Golden Globes After Husband’s Death
The “White Lotus” actor was slated to present at the event but did not attend following the death of her husband Jeff Baena.
Skip Bayless facing sexual harassment in new lawsuit
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Russia will send advanced space tech to North Korea, Blinken says – POLITICO
Russia will send advanced space tech to North Korea, Blinken says
The Kremlin also “may be close” to recognizing North Korea as a nuclear power, says U.S. top diplomat.Joshua Posaner (POLITICO)
Jaguars fire Doug Pederson after dismal season
Jaguars fire Doug Pederson after dismal season
He failed to develop former No. 1 pick Trevor Lawrence into the franchise-altering quarterback many hoped he would become.Justin Terranova (New York Post)
First Baltic Sea "Sabotage," Now Chinese Ship Suspected Of Severing Major Undersea Cable Near Taiwan
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ZeroHedge - On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero
First Baltic Sea "Sabotage," Now Chinese Ship Suspected Of Severing Major Undersea Cable Near Taiwan
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ZeroHedge - On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero
Zelenskyy Says 'Strong' Trump Can End Ukraine War
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Kamala Harris formally certifies Donald Trump's election victory
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Donald Trump's election victory has been formally certified by democratic rival Kamala Harris.
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At least has some of them. I think they always grab the betas and aggregate the release notes/changes during the nightly/beta tests.
We have new version out!
Oh, that's good I guess. So... what's new?
We can not tell you yet.
Year-based version numbers are pretty neat IMO, particularly for applications. Not only can you quickly estimate how up-to-date any particular application is, it also avoids the version number racing problem between competing applications, because some people equate lower version numbers with a less developed application.
For programming libraries though semantic versioning is still the good ol' reliable.
finally release notes have been uploaded!
probably only OP will see this though..
A refreshed New Tab layout is being rolled out to users in the US and Canada, featuring a repositioned logo and weather widget to prioritize Web Search, Shortcuts, and Recommended Stories at the top.
before anyone starts complaining, yes I know several people in close proximity that use the news&weather windows taskbar thing, so this probably has a reason to exist
The 103 early hints is nice to finally see in the network tab, stopping a scroll by placing the fingers down on the track pad, is neat too!
Solid update AFAIC
'The West Wing' has left Max
Where to Watch 'The West Wing' Online for Free
'The West Wing' is no longer streaming on Max — here's how to watch Seasons 1-7 online.Claire Franken (TVLine)
Mecha Comet is a modular Linux handheld coming soon to Kickstarter for $159
The Mecha Comet is a phone-sized computer small enough to slide into a pocket. But it has a smaller screen than most modern smartphones, runs a custom Linux-based operating system instead of Android or iOS, and features a modular design that lets you attach a keyboard, game controller, or other components to the lower half of the device.
You can’t actually buy one yet, but the makers of the Mecha Comet plan to launch a Kickstarter crowdfunding campaign soon with Early Bird rewards starting at $159.
The base measures 70 x 150 x 16.5mm (2.76″ x 5.91″ 0.7″) and weighs 215 grams (7.5 ounces). It features a 3.4 inch, 480 x 480 pixel IPS LCD touchscreen display, an NXP i.MX8M Mini quad-core ARM Cortex-A53 processor, 3GB of LPDDR4 memory, and 32GB of eMMC flash storage. It supports WiFi 5 and Bluetooth 5.0 LE and features a 5MP rear camera and a 3,000 mAh LiPo battery.
There’s a 6-axis gyroscope for motion sensing, a real-time clock with an onboard coin-cell battery, and a programmable RGB LED light.
It also features a Gigabit Ethernet port, which is something you don’t often find on handhelds, as well as two USB 2.0 Type-A ports (one with OTG support), and an M.2 2230 slot for PCIe 2.0 accessories.
The system ships with a Debian Linux-based operating system called Mechanix OS that has a custom user interface designed for the small touchscreen display. But Mecha notes that not only is the system open to running “all 60,000+ packages in the Debian repos,” but since the system isn’t locked down to a single operating system, developers can port other Linux distributions or operating systems. The Mechanix Shell user interface is “built in rust and supports GPU rendering on Wayland,” which means that you should be able to use it with most other recent Linux distros.
Mecha plans to offer three official “extension” modules for the system. One is a QWERTY keyboard for thumb typing. Another is a game pad with a D-Pad, X, Y, A, and B buttons and three additional buttons. And the the third is a GPIO board that provides a serial console over USB-C and support for 40 I/O pins.
But the company is also open sourcing design files for anyone who wants to build their own extension modules. And the Mecha Comet also supports Raspberry Pi HATs and Mikroebus Click modules.
The company is showing off early hardware at CES this week, and according to the folks at Engadget and Tom’s Hardware that got a chance to go hands-on with the prototypes, it’s already a pretty functional little device with decent build quality.
You can find more details at the Mecha website and GitHub repository.
#comet #crowdfunding #handheld #mechaComet #modular #openHardware
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South Korea says North Korea fired a ballistic missile into the sea
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The launch event came as U.S. Secretary of State Antony Blinken was visiting Seoul for talks with South Korean allies over the North Korean nuclear threat and other issues.
North Korea fires ballistic missile into eastern sea, South Korea military says
South Korea says North Korea fired a ballistic missile that flew 685 miles before landing in waters between the Korean Peninsula and Japan. The launch on Monday extended North Korea's weapons testing weeks before Donald Trump returns as U.S.KIM TONG-HYUNG (AP News)
Ohio governor vetoes medical free speech clause he says would gut state's regulatory power
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Ohio Gov. Mike DeWine has vetoed part of a bill cast by state lawmakers as protecting the medical free speech of doctors and other health professionals.
Wives Earning More Than Husbands Linked To Rising Mental Health Diagnoses In Couples
The study, conducted by Dr Demid Getik, explores how mental health is related to income make-up within couples by examining the link between annual income rises for women and the number of clinical mental health diagnoses over a set period of time.The study finds that as more women take on the breadwinner role in the household, the number of mental health related incidences also increases.
As wives begin earning more than their husbands, the probability of receiving a mental health diagnosis increases by as much as 8% for all those observed in the study, but by as much as 11% for the men.
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Show your sources that for all human history things have been one specific way. Don’t forget to adjust for the fact that your education, media, socialization are all geared towards the current economic system and therefore are slanted to reinforce norms that feed that system.
It’s possible that the woman became the higher earner because of the man’s existing substance abuse problem, and/or that the woman becoming a higher earner allowed the man to seek help for the problem.It’s also possible that the substance abuse problem developed after the woman became the higher earner, though I’m not sure why that would happen.
I think those are two fair bits of speculation that warrant further study and/or reporting.
Why is the idea that all of human history before now being completely wrong such an unquestionable truth today?
Because it's not "all of human history" it's at best "eurocentric," a western belief system. There were and are many cultures that value women as leaders and not just relegated to the kitchen. It's just "us westerners" that have this fucked up view of a womans "place."
The study focused on heterosexual Swedish couples of working age who married in 2001 and whose individual incomes measured at just above or just below the equal earnings threshold.
I wouldn't have thought mental health care was inaccessible due to cost in a country like Sweden.
It's not always free in scandinavialand. If you have a referral from a doctor due to a mental illness or the like, it's probably covered. But if you seek therapy out if own initiative you probably have to pay out of pocket.
Source: As a scandinavian I looked into it once, but upon noticing the hourly rate I figured that it would probably cause more mental distress than it would solve.
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I'm in the same boat. I happen to earn more, but not really through my own education/merit/worth to society - just by virtue of the industry I work in and that I can also make computers go beep sometimes.
For a while, my wife did earn more than me, and that was fine. My job was easier, so I did more housework and took some of the stress off her.
Imo it's wild to be upset that you are earning more as a team just because the person earning the most on the team is a woman. Patriarchy is a hell of a drug
Wow, you and me have the same life it seems. My wife went to college, has her masters and 1 year shy of getting her PHD. and is a special education teacher making nothing crazy. I have no school and I am an IT admin and recently moved to networking and make only slightly more. She thinks I will be someone who cares that she makes more than me, and I say why? Why would I want us to have a harder time than we already have now? Please make more, make a lot more if you can! We only benefit more with peace of mind, I can care less who it comes from.
Some decent news is they work in steps so every year they are guaranteed a raise and she's around step 15 of 20 which after looking at the steps the first 13 are awful and now the next 5 years are huge. Like so big that each year is basically the equivalent of the past 13 combined. So, considering how stagnant I've been, she will pass me by a decent amount within the next 5 years.
Well, I think this is a bit of an exaggeration. Patriarchy is a pretty dominant social structure across many different cultures, not just European. There are exceptions, yes, but it seems far more common than it should be if that was purely coincidental. Based on my reading, patriarchy is strongly associated with the rise of agriculture and with patrilocal marriage and may not have existed prior to those institutions, but early human history has a very scant level of evidence remaining, unfortunately.
However, the relatively low sexual dimorphism in humans does suggest that early human societies were fairly egalitarian with respect to the sexes.
I dunno, maybe on average.
When I was unemployed for a bit between contracts, my wife made all the income and I paid for what I could with my emergency fund. (Everything worked out fine)
I did basically all the chores, cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. in addition to looking for work and working on "side-hustles".
She wishes that she made enough money so that we could hit that dual-income level alone and I could become a house husband for her, lmao
And hey, if she could make enough money on her own, I'd love that! Lol
Men that are upset that their wives out-earn them are missing the point of marriage. The point of marriage isn't him vs her, its the two of you together against the world. If she is earning more than him, then that benefits him too because he's part of the marriage.
I'm constantly astonished when I hear of men that are upset by their wives out-earning them. Some of these men have even sabotaged their wife's work or changed the circumstances at home preventing her from continuing in the job where she out-earns him. My only hope for these women is they realize their husband's love is conditional on him being dominant over her, and that she seeks out a better future where she can be her best self.
Yup I remember hearing this for the first time talking to a co-worker. He would never date anyone making more than him in $. I was so confused cause I'm happy my wife makes more $ than me. Which is the reason I went back to school cause I wanted to help with contribute more. I see my wife as an equal and nothing less. We do the same amount of work around the house and cook and all that. Why marry if you do not see your partner as an equal being.
My other coworkers were confused as well. Guy had weird values when it came to women.
Nah, its really only 1% that's against you.
Solidarity. We are many, they are few.
The world is more than just the 1%.
A wind storm damaging the roof of the house has nothing to do with the 1%. Yet it will still negatively affect the married couple if they don't have the resources to fix the roof.
Isn't there the theory that agriculture basically pushed patriarchy because of several factors?
Just a quick glance into this article:
bbc.com/future/article/2023052…
gives some insights which do not sound too wrong. For example the article mentions the theory that the rise in property included the need for defense against others and you are better at this with more people. The article also theorizes that "social elites emerged as some people built up more property than others, driving men to want to make sure their wealth would pass onto their legitimate children".
Very interesting article. I might need to check out the author's book, it sounds right up my alley.
Another interesting fact is that as we've seen these agrarian and patrilocal traditions weaken under capitalism, we suddenly see a strong push for gender equality after thousands of years of consistent oppression. This also fits the pattern, although the number of dramatic changes to society in recent centuries make it difficult to pinpoint exact causes.
This has to depend on the guy. My ex, he always made less $ than me because I went to college after having kids and got a better job, then asked him if he wanted to do the same he said no, and we made enough as long as we both worked, it wasn't anything we really thought about, only about hours worked by each of us. Now when he was unemployed it all went to hell, but not as long as he worked at all. I valued his work, not the wage.
My husband, he wants to make more than me but sees it as a challenge, he wants me to make more money, because it would motivate him to make more money, he just wants us to have more money. He is very happy for me to succeed, and I'm valued for contributions at home and making money, and (critically important) he does as much as me around the house, and our busy work seasons aren't at the same time so we are able to support each other during those months. I do think it's a sexist thing (he does too but still feels it) but don't actually care, it works fine for us in practice.
Why is there an increase in mental health diagnoses recently?
Looks around at the state of the world. Tyranny on the rise; human right being violated across the globe; climate crisis set to boil humanity alive; tech companies funding dictators.
My hypothesis is that it is the fault of women.
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This is really sad, tbh.
I personally would be freaking stoked. Would love to be a stay at home hubs, too.
Dude, me too, and I would kill at it.
Sadly, based on skills and the job market where we're at, I can make more working.
That's what we found out.
My wife enjoys her work, finds it rewarding, etc. etc. and has never been really content as a homemaker. My job is alright, but I don't feel any real passion for it, and I don't need a work atmosphere or to be around a lot of people to stay engaged. I'm happy just keeping things organized and running smoothly in my own little corner of the world.
I make just a little less than we need for her to stay home, and she makes peanuts in comparison.
It really hacks me off. She works in education, what she does is far more important to the well-being of society than what I do. If our paychecks were reversed, and they honestly should be reversed, I'd be happy to stay home or work part time but it's just not financially feasible.
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you are assuming that work is intrinsically competitive
That assumption is based upon the idea that working with a broad range of strangers means you can't trust people specifically, so you have to work towards your goals. From that you will end up cooperating naturally with anyone who shares your goals, but you will also have to compete fiercely with those who have goals antagonistic to your own.
With pilots, it's not Sweden and firing, but EASA and medicals.
After the Germanwings crash, the only reasonable choice was obviously making it so that most mental health issues disqualify you from flying. It does wonders for reporting.
Admitting you need help can end your career, not just lose your current job.
I've experienced a man in my life being really fucking salty and super dickish about my successful career. It isn't a husband or SO, but my stepfather. The man who, until recently, has been a great father figure.
I can't talk about work around him without his mood immediately souring. Idk if he's jealous that I have some disposable income and that I am making a little less than he is and I'm only 3 years into my career as opposed to his 25, but it's really discouraging.
Finances are very tight for him and my mother and it's almost entirely his fault because he is terrible with money. It's really sad to see him act this way. According to my mom, he has bitched to my grandma (his mom) about me taking up horseback riding and doing things with my new friends because it can be expensive. My grandma yelled at him over it and said that me doing new things and socializing is very good and she supports it. Idk why he thinks my finances are his business either. Ugh. The man is so frustrating.
Sorry for ranting. Guess I really needed to get all that out lol.
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Yes, the link is this:
When all the adults in the household have to work 40+ hours a week, plus commute, plus all the adulting...they get sad since this is fucking toxic.
Also no one has time for civics.
Also no one has time to parent, so the kids are sad too.
If we're looking at mental health problems, lets look here first.
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You're right, patriarchal demands are toxic on men too and that's where the stress comes from.
Could have said that instead of being dismissive about it though.
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Yeah correlation is not causation.
These couples might both work more than the control cohort. Any number of explanations.
women will discard them for an even higher earning husbands
Isn't half the problem that "higher earning husbands" are in increasingly short supply?
Are we predicting a future of patriarchal mega-earners cultivating harems of middle-income working professionals? Or will the skyrocketing cost of living just going to turn the Surplus Males into fodder for our next generation of foreign wars, while an increasing population of lesbians fills in all the office jobs at depressed professional wages?
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"women have a higher chance to develop eating disorders when consuming more social media"are gals really upset over this? grow up! jesus
maybe instead of judging the individual we should look at how traditional societal expectations about gender interact with modern capitalist society and realize that what may have worked to some degree 100 years ago can no longer work today
what may have worked to some degree 100 years ago can no longer work today
Not because there's a shortage of consumer goods or real estate or daylight hours. Because there's a shrinking pool of gainful employment and steadily rising costs of living. These are entirely engineered problems, with low wage service sector and gig-work jobs eclipsing higher wage jobs that can sustain a household on a single income.
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It's not free, but it's not expensive either, max of around $250 a year for all healthcare. But mental health care in Sweden is abysmal, if you're lucky they'll give you 12 sessions with a psychologist who is apathetic to your issues and then let you go, because they seem to see it as something that once your sessions are done, should be fixed.
This in a country rife with social isolation, months of dark and cold, hobbies that are too expensive to do and a generally unhealthy society.
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I would suggest that "Wives earning more than husbands" isn't the issue so much as "Cost of living is outpacing household earnings and men have been conditioned through generations of patriarchy to believe this is a personal failing rather than a broad economic shift".
If your wife is bringing in seven figures, I doubt the husband will lose much sleep. But if you're looking at a $30k paycheck to your wife's $40k paycheck, and you both acknowledge the total isn't enough to live on, there's a lot of anxiety to go around in that situation.
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Was talking to a cute girl at a New Years Eve party, and it came out that while I made a nice amount for doing very little work, she made even more but had to do a lot of work. I went straight to daydreaming about being a stay-at-home Dad so hard I almost fell off my chair.
Dudes, more money means more money, why on earth would having more money upset you???
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I'm willing to bet it's selection bias. They have more time for therapy and openness to the idea. It's one of those studies that just looks at the numbers at the top of everything. X couples got divorced, Y people sought counseling, etc.
The most they can say is there's an increased correlation in seeking mental help.
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Oh for fucks sake. No wonder this study is ridiculous. It's an economist trying to make inferences on mental health. The only actual data he had is a correlation in mental health diagnoses and women earning significantly* more. (Number not defined)
He has no evidence for causation. He does no work to get rid of confounding factors like toxic masculinity's famous dislike of therapy. He just sees a rise in the pure number of diagnoses and says women earning more is bad for the mental health of both people in a marriage. He doesn't even bother to check what the diagnoses are, or look for any kind of severity. For all we know the finding here could be that women who earn more and men who are willing to be with them seek counseling earlier than couples where the man makes more.
This is shit science.
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Maybe this happens because the woman who earns more often emasculates her husband with snide remarks or jabs. Unlike the other way round where men are expected to earn more than their spouse otherwise they're "less of a man".
Maybe that's contributing to the higher mental health issues.
My wife easily does 80% or more of the housework. She makes less than half what I do. The thing is, she only works 40 hours or so a week compared to my 60 or so. I'm not glorifying my overwork, I hate that I work so much. I'm also out of town during the week days more than half the time.
I would be thrilled if she made more than me. We could hire a cleaning service and we would be so happy. This shit is insane and probably bad science.
[Translation: Correlation does not equal causation.]
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Timothée Chalamet awkwardly avoids question about Kylie Jenner despite Golden Globes PDA
This year's Golden Globes ceremony marks the second that Timothée and Kylie have attended as a couple.
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