I'm not very religious, but I do have my own loosely Pagan beliefs. A "soft polytheist", I see the gods and goddesses from an archetype point of view - not individual, physical deities, but archetypes - all different facets of one creator god-spirit, who, in turn, I try to understand via the feminine and masculine - the Lord and Lady. However, I don't view them in a heteronormative, 'married couple', way, and so I believe the God and Goddess's spiritual forms of masculine and feminine are not bound to any biological human sex, and I believe they can be fluid and merged, or even without gender.

I also believe that at the end of the day, if you believe in a god or goddess, there's no need to worry about their existence, or 'picking the wrong team'. Remember, whoever or whatever the creator, god, or goddess is (or isn't), as humans, we're not expected to understand it all, because, well, it's GOD!