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in reply to 🌈 vanta rainbow black: Legendary Defender Of The Fediverse 🌈

So many people look at my disaster of a room and say things like "You must like living like that.".
No! I hate it!
I crave order, I need order, but I am unable to create and maintain order on a scale that big. You can see it in the fact there are meticulously arranged spots in my room. It's the best I can do.
If I could make my brain organize and clean, this place would have things fucking alphabetized, and stuff perfectly aligned...
I'm in hell
in reply to Miakoda

I also live with OCD. I struggle to tolerate speakers not being aligned. Ya think I want to be ankle deep in junk?! No!
I am constantly overwhelmed and overstimulated by this disaster, but help isn't available.
I used to escape it by occasionally spending the night on the couch, but my current roommates don't allow that.
in reply to Miakoda

@hellomiakoda
I feel a little bit better about myself.

It's a mental illness, not a personal failing.

But.

My house is still a fucking hoarder disaster and my wife and I still have to live here.

"How did you let this happen?"

"One day at a time."

in reply to Miakoda

@hellomiakoda
When my wife was able-bodied, we were already losing so many battles. Once she became disabled, we lost the war.

I hate looking at our house. I hate the piles. I hate how we have "stuffalanches" because everything is "precariously perched" and an errant bump can cause a mess. I hate the hundreds of tiny boxes, many unopened from the period when my wife was becoming disabled but couldn't admit it and kept buying so many things for her hobbies.

I hate so much of it.

It's overwhelming and demoralizing.

I take care of my wife. I take care of our cats. I do my job so we have money and insurance. Sometimes, I take care of myself. I try to take care of myself. But I feel like it doesn't matter.

I can't take care of this house. I never could.

We need to move. To a safer, non-red state, to a smaller house, to an assisted living place maybe.

There is so much to do to make this house sellable. I can't do it. She can't do it.

We will die here.




RE: mastodon.art/@JenJen/115793201…

This dadinlaw btw


"Look heres the trapdoor, screews missing now because it's been opened so much - even the screws fetch money now"

in reply to Andrew J Spaulding

It’s their version of a death wish wrapped in delusions of glory, projected onto all of us. But we’re guilty too, guilty of inaction, being distracted, unwilling to upset our routines, allowing these atrocities to continue, because we can’t be bothered It’s just too much for many of us to deal with, because the solution involves pain and we’d rather just let it slide, until the pain becomes too unbearable, when we’re in for a real national roller coaster ride.


Fascists in power ALWAYS leads to war. ALWAYS.

Never vote for fascists. You'll die (and kill a whole lot of people) for it.





Stop Using Your Keyboard and Start Using Handy, a Free Speech-to-Text App


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in reply to Brian Jopek

As usual with this guy, when he's yelling and screaming and pointing to his left you should be very carefully looking to his right.


This is extralegal and extrajudicial: no declaration of war, no clear congressional or UN authorization, no due process. Unilateral seizure of a foreign head of state shreds sovereignty and international law.
> Maduro and wife captured by Delta
washingtonpost.com/world/2026/…
in reply to Chris Abraham

Not in manufacturing, no.
"Flush is an exact value"
True or False is useless, a Plus / Minus range is the Fact.

You can hold to a range, you cannot hold to the "truth".



Everyone ready to get your kids killed in combat for Trump?!?!?!?!?!?

No?

Tough shit



Trump & his allies are seizing Venezuela's oil for themselves. Trump himself has been stating his intentions for some time, despite occasionally providing other narratives for the inevitable intervention.

Any news outlet reporting anything else, or suggesting that this is in any way for the benefit of the American people, the international community, or about the "rule of law", is willfully parroting regime propaganda and not an outlet you can trust.

#journalism #USPol #politics

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Well, this is easy. Maduro agrees to play ball with the dictator wannabe FOTUS and he’ll get a pardon. Problem solved! Now, release the damn files!

“Trump recently pardoned the Honduran president for the same drug trafficking crimes.” - Jay Kuo

in reply to Brian Jopek

How convenient when your ‘King of the World’ and can dictate crimes as benefits yourself and you have a powerful military ready to do your bidding. This is so fucked. You might add “we’re so fucked, some of us are just too stupid to know it.” It feels like a break from reality as I know it. 🔥🤬



Chevron, the only major U.S. oil producer in Venezuela, has been a leading donor to the International Republican Institute, a nonprofit that supported the political opposition in the country. Former opposition leader Juan Guaidó pledged to protect oil giant's assets in 2019.

Free to read article:

readsludge.com/2019/08/13/guai…




Dad-in-law on his way
How do I explain that the reason I'm hungover is because we livestreamed installing linux for 6 hours last night
in reply to JenJen

just tell him you watched some sportsball thing last night, and overdid it on the drinks.

This will sound completely natural and obvious, thus preventing further questions. Just make sure to pick a plausible game and look up the results.




I built this clothes rail that can be clipped outside on #Ikea #Pax sliding doors, so I have a place to hang fresh clothes while I‘m sorting what‘s inside the wardrobe. As it turns out it fails after being fully loaded for a few weeks (as in „after being used as an extension of the wardrobe with a massive load“).
This is a good thing™️ because it failed before the sliding door hardware failed.
Something always will give in the end, it‘s good if that‘s a part that can be fixed easily.
#Ikea #PAX