I should've had recorded and made a documentary about my and Sasha's situation...4 years now and we still did not get any papers for Sasha. We've been through so much shit you can't imagine....just to let us live together. Now we thought that's it, finally, we paid a lawyer to submit all of the papers, I have a "job", and we were told that in 2 or so months we will have an answer. That was in September last year....
We contacted the lawyer today and we were told .... "Oh can take up to 7 months..." - fuck them. These robots...
I bet most people have no clue about how fucked up it is. To basically not be able to stay together unless you have a lot of money. Insane. And this is EU....Spain, wow civilizations. Fuck them, primitive tribes.
Maybe we will piece together the entire story with the little footage we have, and release a sort of documentary at one point. Because this is insanely ridiculous....
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@futureisfoss I have sympathy, really.
While I'm not surprised that every stage of the game is about paying or delaying justice and caring... and then them doing more of the same... which in a paying system is endless paying with less caring again...
So while i know and see the bad constantly, I see we have constantly get rid of the idea of state 'help' in our heads in that circle and even birth certificates etc that put claim on our body / spirit (or the children as we give it to them).
Eventually we have to undo it ALL probably by reducing contact and less funding them every year of our lives.
To expect 0 from them and even expect them never to care seems true. It's so far gone (even hospitals cheating those who think it's free while paying insurance / tax for subsidies for meat / eggs industry / cruelty and giving cholesterol etc that goes back to treating illness but not the cause / the loop itself).
Business is Bad loops.
So not just another documentary maybe, something more which I know you have done already but every now and again we have step up (AGAIN) and feel proud for doing it. I don't have all the answers or maybe I do that you need to twist in your own way.
So "NO MORE MONEY" - yes.
And NOW MORE FUNNY PAPER "WORK".
That's my main message.
Below is just more since I visit your stuff occasionally. So if personal help with can be offered (not just money) then you can involve others and better loops of better people.
I know you have done a lot and it's like asking someone to put a bar of weights "a little bit more" but given the right exploring together we can absolutely smash our limits and find people.
I like your stuff, I think it's always about how to do the 1 more "level up" and moral "power up" even though you're already living the way.
Examples to PUSH FORWARD MORE;
1. Home-birth baby no certs / no giving baby to state.
2. Get out of city trap/pay zone
3. Your own Couchsurfing-style / custom made "circle of chat" platform for people living the way or actually creating trust socially
(e.g. Mastodon is not doing this it's just a empty social platform without anyone working on *socially increasing trust* or *growing better people*). Work on that (again see you are but refresh me also since I check every few years when I reach a dead-end when interaction stops for helping <--- which I think is the main clincher to aim for).
Online chats and circles as part of living and growing people NOT money is a big part of finding the way..
Happy to talk and you can visit / live here for a while (EU).
Above concrete list of ideas are actually to work a on a solution a bit more meta than the usual complaining (rightly complaining but just complaining doesn't work always) and beyond displaying more of the same hate, something loving / exploring... less begging / expecting from bastards (the wrong people) and finding more the good.
It's the brutal branch of evolution that we came from and still just have to find a way to face it (comfortably or otherwise) and even wear it down / withdraw contact / silently boycott.
Again happy to talk more personally and even help... we need to really work on something more weekly daily even if not directly in contact, keeping it all funneled in knowing in the background it's all coming back to us. (for example Trade-Free but finding away more than money to give back which talking to Alexio wasn't really clear so I just left it as is). We have to channel each other even if you think I'm not that important and even if it's not clear at first what people are doing as WE also make each other (left to state we make shit).
Kind regards. #FreeSchool