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in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

Well Joan you reply to a post in English by writing in Catalan. How come?

If you already know English, the best is to write in English. Else communication is either impossible or difficult.

Same is true for the Catalans who know Spanish. If you already know a common official language why not use it? It is a simple question.

in reply to Tio

contestar en anglès a un tut en català és igualment irònic.
Jo no som català, però sa meva llengua ho és. Gent que després de viure 15 anys a una nació i ve a imposar l'ús de l'idioma de la colònia (sigui foraster o sigui anglès) i esperant que sempre, sempre, sempre vos contestem en el vostre idioma, és com a poc, de maleducats. I ens hem cansat.
Si el vostre esforç és només per queixar-vos de la llengua pròpia del lloc on viviu, doncs, mira, aquí ho deixam. Adéu
in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

in reply to Tio

> I also look at the history of Catalonia

I Galícia, País Basc, Balears, Astúries, País Valencià, Extremadura i qualsevol altra nació dins s'Estat Epanyol, idioma del qual, no fos castellà.

> why are the Catalans so hurt when others do not speak Catalan

Sa incomoditat ve quan preteneu integrar-vos només si vos giram la llengua. Però, repetesc, jo no som català.

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in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

> No one forces you to speak another language now
Sí, si ho feu. Amb lleis, amb publicitat, amb diners i vivint a un lloc negant-vos a aprendre el seu idioma propi. O «exigint» contestar en anglès un tut. Estau massa avesats a que vos girem la llengua.

> no one here wants to attack "your culture and language"

La primera cosa que has dit és justament fer servir qualsevol altre idioma, un de comú.

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in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

> The point is that by having this attitude towards those who do not speak Catalan

Esteim cansats d'haver d'explicar cada dia perquè volem viure la nostra vida en la nostra llengua. Per exemple, a gent que després de 15 anys, no vol aprendre català perquè ja li poden xerrar en anglès o espanyol.

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in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

I didn't insult you. Asking me to turn my tongue is rude.


The rude part is to know a common language and refuse to use it. If I do not know Catalan, only Spanish, and you know Spanish but refuse to speak Spanish to me, who is the one who is rude? Spanish, is again, one of the 3 official languages of Catalonia - and that should even be besides the point.

I find this every day. I'm sorry.


So have you looked into why many people come to Catalonia, live here for many years, and do not learn Catalan? What did you find? Because I can tell you from my perspective and the people I know.

And if you can please reply in English to an English written post. This is quite unbelievable and it kinda shows why the situation with the Catalans in Catalonia is cancerous. You simply create an annoyance for both of us. Quite astonishing you decide to reply only in Catalan to an English post - you inserted yourself into "my world" and make it so hard for us to communicate. Use a common language or better not reply.

But honestly I am not surprised...

in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

We are tired of having to explain every day why we want to live our lives in our language. For example, to people who, after 15 years, don't want to learn Catalan because they can already chat in English or Spanish.

As far as I have observed the Catalans speak Catalan with their Catalan friends and family. No one forces them to speak Spanish. All Catalans can happily live in Catalonia and speak Catalan. Why do you feel so tired? Tired of what? In Nederlands, Andorra, Moldova, Canada, and so on people are perfectly fine to speak 2 or more languages without hating on those who do not speak one or another.

The more languages you speak the better, no? Be happy you know Spanish too, which is spoken by hundreds of millions of people. Isn't that an advantage?

in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

You will never learn Catalan (or any other language) if we speak it to you.


Idk what you mean. But the translation is correct perhaps: I will never learn Catalan just becuase you force it upon me and only talk Catalan to me.

Romanian is very similar to Catalan. You can't learn Catalan if we don't speak it to you.


Again, so far it did not work on me and so many other people to speak Catalan with us and we suddenly to get in loved with the language and speak it. Doesn't work. Is impossible if you are so rude and have this passive-aggressive behavior to make people want to learn your language. And is more to that.

in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

Yes, if you do. With laws, with advertising, with money and living in a place refusing to learn its own language. Or "demanding" to answer a tut in English. You are too used to us turning your tongue.

No, no one is forced in Catalonia to speak any other language than Catalan. But the Catalans may try to force others to only speak Catalan despite Spanish also being an official language in Catalonia and uderstood by more people in Catalonia than Catalan.

in reply to Joan CiberSheep (ell/això)

Even this conversation is an example of the terrible way to try and communicate. If the post is in English, and you translate in Catalan, why can't you at least translate your response to English so I have to do all of the work? That only creates discomfort...

The discomfort comes when you only try to integrate if we turn our tongues on you. But, I repeat, I am not Catalan.

Actually from my experience when you try to force Catalan on people you only make them hate that language. Why do you think if you refuse to speak a common language and force Catalan people would feel like they need to learn Catalan? I and the people I know truly hate this attitude and feel insulted by it. Isn't it something you should consider?

in reply to spla

15 years but you didn't understand that the native language of Catalonia is Catalan. You'll have to come again to see if you'll have better luck.
We Catalans speak Catalan at home, it's our native language and it's the official language. Respect.

Another one who sees a post in English and decides the best is to reply in Catalan. Can't make this shit up...perhaps my article is far more on point than even I thought...

I understand very well that Catalan, Occitan and Spanish are the official languages of Catalonia.

I also speak Romanian at home with my parents. English with my friends who are from different parts of the world. And Spanish in Spain, including Catalonia, as much as I can. You see, the advantage of knowing multiple languages and using them as we should. The purpose of language is to communicate, no?

I ask you kindly to reply to this English post in English, else you are making communication very difficult. And you are the one inserting yourself in this conversation.

Unknown parent

I would say that English (and Spanish) with its expansive and annihilating nature is more carcinogenic than Catalan, which is in clear regression, but I no longer expect an imperialist culture to grasp this.

Ok so more Catalans who see an English post and reply only in Catalan. Proves my point in the article. You say people don't respect your language when they come to Calatonia, well do you respect my language when you comment on my english posts? No.

English and Spanish yes were imposed to many parts of the world due to those native speakers conquering those parts of the world. Same as the Catalans did with the Catalonian region that was inhabited by Muslims with their own language. Only the scale may be different, but not the scope.

You should try to see beyond these past traumas and use what language you know in order to communicate. Else you only create corrosion between people.

Unknown parent

@cibersheep I would say that languages ​​are learned by forcing them, let's see if they don't speak French in the Maghreb, Spanish in South America or English in India, because, I would say, they didn't learn them there with Duolingo because they found them interesting...

Languages yes are learned by need, force, etc.. I wrote a 600 pages book about languages tromsite.com/books/#flipbook-l… - so the Catalans want to force it then? Is that a good thing or does it even work? Because they try to do that in a region of Spain (as catalonia is now), in EU, and in a very touristic zone.... I don't see any chance you are making those poor South Americans, Romanians, Bulgarians, or the British and French tourists want to learn Catalan. Spanish, maybe....since it is useful. But Catalan, for the vast majority of people who come from outside, is not very useful at all. For better or for worse.

Unknown parent

15 years and not understanding that is what i wrote.

I think that to be 15 years here, being a speaker of Romanian and also Spanish (in addition to English, as it seems) and still maintaining that you are incapable of parsing (let alone speaking, but merely understanding) Catalan, and using that flimsy a pretext to force a Catalan speaker speak to you in Castilian is *not understanding* Catalonia at all.

Plus, I would adventure, taking some sadistic authoritarian pleasure in it.

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Unknown parent

@cibersheep if you were consistent with your logic you wouldn't be talking about any language, because you haven't learned any languages ​​by choice and having them forced on you like you did with English and Spanish doesn't seem right to you. Is that it or are you an imperialist who only thinks it's right to force learning the language of the empire?

I am from Romania :)) I am not that "imperialist" :D. This has nothing to do with being an "imperialist" but more so to do with "not being a jackass by refusing to use a common language to communicate". As simple as that.

I leaned English by choice. Same with Spanish kinda. It is really useful to know English considering it is the most international language on Earth and most scientific papers are written in English. Yes it ended up being like that because of a lot of influence, from force to media, but now it is what it is. Is a tool. Use it!

Unknown parent

@cibersheep in fact English was the language of science, now it's Chinese. And you're so mentally screwed up defending your linguistic apartheid that you don't realize that you're also a victim of linguistic imperialism: instead of your mother tongue, which you don't use due to diaglossia, you opt for the hegemonic language that has become so due to the violence of suffocating others in all areas. You insult me ​​but you make me feel sorry for you: you're Stephen from Django..

Most scientific papers are written in English. That is a fact.

But anyway, it is just a bloody language man. Calm down. You should be more worried that all products in Catalonia are made in China, or are USA-based ones. From Whatsapp to the sweets in the stores, or the stores themselves. Products, materials, apps, software...made by a few companies mostly from the USA. That is concerning, not a bloody language that is not owned by anyone. Use the damn language to communicate with people about real issues, rather than bitch about the language itself.

Be serious....

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in reply to Tio

@cibersheep estàs tan imperialitzat que no t’adones de totes les formes de violència i en justifiques unes (les de l’imperi) i t’enfuteixes pels que lluiten per fer sobreviure la seva llengua. El teu article lamentable, de colon lingüístic disglòssic ja l’he llegit, llegeix tu que abans de desbarrar t’ajudaria a contenir les tonteries que arribes a dir: tienda.hamelyn.com/libros-segu…
in reply to pomubieng

@cibersheep you're the one who has a problem with other languages, you're the one who complains about Catalan, you're the one who insults, you're the one who needs to calm down.

I don't have any problems with other languages, obviously since I speak English and not my "native" language Romanian. I do not complain about the Catalan language, I am explaining how some Catalan people refuse to speak a common language with others and this makes us hate each other. I do not even hate those Catalans. I'd like for us to calm down and understand each other.

Have you even red the article?

in reply to Tio

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

You questions are answered in the article. I can help you a bit if you refuse to read it.

I ended up in Catalonia due to poverty. I was not even aware people speak Catalan there. I thought they speak Spanish. Poor people from outside end up staying around the same poor people - work in the same places, etc.. So Romanians, Moroccans, South Americans, and others, spoke Spanish. They too probably didn't even realize others speak Catalan here...or what is this Catalan a Spanish dialect!?

After all we came to Spain and got a Spanish residency...

On top of that all Catalans also speak Spanish. And Spanish is also an official language in Catalonia.

So the situation was kinda like this. No to mention that for those who come to work due to poverty reasons it is not very advantageous to know a regional language since they may move to other parts of Spain for work.

I never said the Catalans have a problem. I actually said we should understand this complex situation and try to find a humane way of living with each other. Read the article if you want to understand.

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in reply to TROM

I've read the article. Your point of view is mistaken IMHO and I'll try to explain why. We, Catalans don't speak Catalan to exclude foreigners or anything like that. We speak Catalan because it is our language, that's why. As simple as that. Why do we have to stop speaking our own language in our own country?

Imagine moving to Amsterdam, where everybody speaks English but the mother tongue of the majority of Dutch people is Dutch language, of course. Now, imagine...
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imagine hanging around with a group of amsterdamers speaking Dutch with each other. Would you complain about that? Would you really ask them to change their language and start speaking English just for you? I wouldn't dare. If i was this person in Amsterdam I would understand that it's me the one living in their city so, if I want to be part of this group, then it's me the one that has to learn their language, not the other way around. For sure, I would be able to...
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to live in Amsterdam for 15 years or more only speaking English, but I wouldn't expect to fully integrate in the Netherlands if I refuse to learn any Dutch. Something similar happens here in Catalonia.

You need to realize that Catalan speakers have been repressed throughout history. Lots of people have been fined, abused, mistreated, beaten or even imprisoned just for speaking their language. Some of these people are famous carachters, like the architect Antoni Gaudí, for example
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@trom but I'm not refering only to past times, even today, lots of Catalans are abused or mistreated just for speaking Catalan at police stations, airports, hospitals, schools, all kind of events etc. Just last week, in Barcelona, one woman was fired from her job just because she usually spoke Catalan with customers or coworkers. If you want to learn more about it, just search on the internet, it's full of stories about Catalans being discriminated just for speaking their language.

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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

@trom Besides, Catalan language is declining. The main political parties in Spain (specially the ones on the right and far right) and also some high Spanish courts work actively to impose the Spanish language and reduce the presence of Catalan. Again you can learn more about it, just check what the governments of Partido Popular and Vox are doing on this matter in the Balearic Islands or in Valencia, for example. This, among other factors, is threatening the future of our language.
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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

50 or 60 years ago Catalan was widely spoken in places where today is almost lost. In Barcelona, for example, only 20 or 25% of the population speak Catalan on daily basis. This percentage would be around 50% just 25 or 30 years ago.

So yeah, some of us feel threatened. If we switch to Spanish every single time there's one person around that don't fully understands the language, then Catalan will simply disappear beacause this happens almost every time. Nobody would speak...
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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

Catalan on the streets, at jobs, at bars, events etc. And we don't want that to occur, we want to preserve our language and culture.

After 15 years living in Catalonia, I encourage you to learn some Catalan. If you already speak Spanish it's not that difficult. Plus, Romanian is also a romance language so, it should be pretty easy for you.

Catalans really apreciate foreigners that have made the effort to learn Catalan. I know plenty of people that live in Catalonia and...
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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

have come from all around the world, from South America, to Asia, from Africa, to Australia and, of course, also from all corners of Europe. Some of this people Speak Catalan and are very happy about it because now they feel really welcomed and accepted in Catalonia. In fact, some of them are today active pro-independence campaigners. Once a foreigner speaks Catalan, we Catalans treat him or her like a very special guest. In fact, we don't consider this person a foreigner anymore.
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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

So yes, if you are happy livng on this land and you plan to live here longer, you are very welcome to stay and I encourage you again to embrace the Catalan language and culture in order to become a true Catalan-Romanian.

Una abraçada, tant de bo poder seguir aquesta conversa en català algun dia proper. Salut!

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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

Would you be available for a podcast to talk about all of this? I'd love to have a decent and friendly discussion about this topic and to learn from each other.

I want to reboot our TROMcast and I'd love to have someone from Catalonia to talk about this subject - tromsite.com/videos/#cast

Please let me know. I am genuinely interested in having an open mind discussion. I have a few wonderful friends in Cataonia. I do not hate on the Catalans. Tomorrow I meet with a family to show them and their kids the Moon. I'd love to speak Catalan if I could have the time and cut from this tension, but also I'd love to see the Catalans see each other more like humans than this label that is transitory in my view. Embrace both, but we are humans first of all.

Let me know please if you would be up for a discussion and we can talk about the details.

Thanks!

in reply to TROM

Thank you for the invitation but there's people much better prepared than me to talk about this topic. You can contact them: plataforma-llengua.cat/qui-som…
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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

Once a foreigner speaks Catalan, we Catalans treat him or her like a very special guest. In fact, we don't consider this person a foreigner anymore.


In my view would be better to treat everyone like that. I see everyone as humans. We have evolved from the same creatures, share the same history. Amazing and real story.

Language is just a tool we use, and it won't change who we are simply by using a different language. You should be happy to know more languages because you can communicate with more people. More diversity.

So treat everyone as humans. We all need a safe environment, food, shelter, healthcare, security, education, etc.. If I were to march for something, I'd march for this.

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

I would not mind learning Catalan, is just that I am too stressed and busy with so many things in my life. I'd love to speak Catalan if I could magically do so. Or Spanish. Also I travel with the motorhome and I do not plan to stay in Catalonia for long.

I encourage people to learn Catalan if they so wish. I think is a cool language - putting aside the fact that I got annoyed with this refusing to speak anything but Catalan to me, if I take the language itself is indeed a nice one - sounds like Romanian many times.

I think the best approach is to treat each other with respect and for the Catalans to make people love the language and not hate on it. I do not like the situation here honestly, and is not ok for anyone.

in reply to TROM

You said you weren't aware of the existance of Catalan language until you came here, 15 years ago.
Ok, so you realized Catalan existed because it's visible. You see it written on street signs, you hear some people speaking it, etc.

If we don't make it visible, lots of people would ignore the existance of this language, less and less people would find useful to learn it and eventually it will disappear. You perceive it's rude that we...

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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

No one ever said to stop speaking Catalan in Catalonia. All I said, and I think any decent human in this world agrees with this, is to use a common language to talk to people and try not to marginalize people because of the language.

If 4 out of 5 people speak fluently Spanish and Catalan, but 1 of them only speaks Spanish, then the decent way is to speak Spanish when that human is part of your conversation.

This is happening in so many places on this planet and I am sure it is considered basic decency.

in reply to TROM

Some would argue that after living in Catalonia for 15 years, maybe it's time for you to make a small effort and try to understand the language. I don't even ask you to speak it but just comprehend the words so the rest of us don't have to change our language because of you.

I don't know...15 years is not enough time? I know people speaking Catalan fluently after 8 or 9 months living here. I understand not everyone has the same situation but, you know...15 years, man.

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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

I understand is easy to use this argument for you, but for one is not easy to learn a new language. Look at the entire Spain they learn english in schools for so many years and in my experience very few can speak english.

I also learned french in school for 8 years and I cannot speak any french. Or anyone I know....

Is not even about learning a language, is also using it. And I rarely interact with the Catalans here.

Second, even if I know Catalan I am not a vessel for the Catalan culture, so that won't help it in that sense.

So you have to understand the more complex situation here. Is not as easy as trying to force me learn a few words in Catalan as that won't make any difference I believe.

in reply to Tio

The thing is you've been living in Catalonia for 15 years and you are complaining about Catalan being spoken when you are around.

And you are asking ALL CATALAN SPEAKERS to stop speaking their mother tongue 100 meters around you so YOU don't have to make a small effort and learn the language of the country you're living in. Not even speak it (no one is asking you to speak it) but just comprehend the words.

And you think this would be the fair outcome here.

Sorry but it is not.

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in reply to Tio

@trom I understand it perfectly well. You are asking all Catalan speakers to take diving courses, driving lessons, museum tours, university classes etc. in Spanish or English just because there's one person in the room that, after having lived in Catalonia for 15 years, refuses to make a little effort and learn the language.

Sorry but it is you the one who has a problem here (not understanding an official language of this country after living here for 15 years), not Catalan speakers.

@TROM
in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

I ask all Catalan people to be respectful to the others in such situations and use the language that suits all people. And please don't ignore that Spanish is also an official language in Catalonia.

Here's a math/reason problem for a 5 year old:

If you have 30 people in a classroom. 25 speak Catalan and Spanish fluently. 5 only speak Spanish. What language should the teacher speak?

A. Catalan, and 5 people would not understand the courses.
B. Spanish and all 30 people would understand the courses.

Choose.

I feel only in Catalonia people would choose A over B. Everywhere else people have a basic decency towards other humans.

I do not ask for Catalans to speak English, ALTHOUGH they learn it in school for YEARS so you would expect they know English and want to use that language else why even teach that language in schools....I do not ask for that, I ask for the Catalans to also speak Spanish, one of the official languages in Catalonia, where it makes sense.

Maybe you still don't see my point?

in reply to Tio

You don't likke the Dutch language? Then maybe it wouldn't be a good idea to move to Amsterdam and to live there.

But if you decide to move to Amsterdam anyway and stay there for f**king 15 YEARS, after all that time, you could change your mind a little bit, make a small effort and try to learn some words in Dutch.

And if you're not willing to make this small effort, then, the least you can do is grow up & stop whining about people speaking Dutch around.

That would be my advice.

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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

So yeah, some of us feel threatened. If we switch to Spanish every single time there's one person around that don't fully understands the language, then Catalan will simply disappear beacause this happens almost every time. Nobody would speak...

I have 2 questions for you:

1. Why is this so threatening to you if Catalan is spoken less and less and eventually will fade away? Is a serious question and I do not want to hurt your feelings, I am simply trying to open up a perhaps uncomfortable situation.

2. Why do you think this approach of forcing the Catalan language when you talk with normal people is going to make Catalan persist? As I said, for me and everyone I know outside Catalonia it makes us hate the Catalans and the language. Which is not ok for anyone.

in reply to TROM

@trom See? This is the key point of this discussion.

You see languages just as a tool to comunicate with other people. On the contrary, many Catalans see our language as part of our culture. It's something unique in the world (nobody else in the world speak it), it's part of an ancient heritage that's been brought to us through history, just like other traditions (dances, songs gastronomy, art...).

Yes we all could end up...
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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

@trom speaking English, eating hamburgers, watching Netflix, celebrating thanksgiving or the 4th of july, dressing up like idiots for halloween and playing baseball.

Maybe you don't care about your cultural heritage as a Romanian and it's ok for you to end up like this but we do care. We would like romanian language, culture, art, heritage, gastronomy, etc. to survive. So we think the same for Catalan and many other languages and cultures around the world.

@TROM
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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

I understand that people see Catalan as important and part of their culture. We can say the same about Romanian and many other languages. I only hoped to challenge a bit these notions in order to relax our conversations around language since like I explained in the article these languages are mutations and mixes of other languages and they always change. Same is with traditions and so fort. And perhaps is important to recognize that.

Catalan is also spoken in other parts of the world by the way. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catalan_… just a side note.

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

Besides, Catalan language is declining.


I understand, but why is it declining? From what I understand is because of different forces such as the fact that Catalonia is too integrated into Spain to be able to detach now, and so everyone in Catalonia already speaks spanish....Also tourism, migration, the fact that Spanish is far more useful for most people than Catalan....

These are real forces that I am not sure you can do much about...Not saying this as an insult or anything like that....

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

@TROM but I'm not refering only to past times, even today, lots of Catalans are abused or mistreated just for speaking Catalan at police stations, airports, hospitals, schools, all kind of events etc.


Where is this happening? In Catalonia? I've never heard of this. Give me some sources I'd like to know the details. However this does not justify to refuse to speak a common language with someone. What do I have to do with those situations? Why should I be marginalized, even as someone who may just visit Catalonia and speaking Spanish?

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in reply to TROM

Only in 2024, around 3.000 people reported situations of mistreatment and discrimination for speaking Catalan.

europapress.es/catalunya/notic…

Ans this is just the people that actually report it. The vast majority of this type of cases pass without being reported at all.

The law says that in Catalonia you have the right to speak Catalan anywhere (at work, as a customer, as a patient, as a student, etc.) and, in reality, this right is not guaranteed many of the times.

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in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

If you know Spanish fluently but refuse to speak Spanish with someone who only knows Spanish, that is intention of marginalization. When Spanish is also an official language in Catalonia and you tell the hospital you do not understand Catalan, only Spanish, and they send you the medical results and appointment details only in Catalan, that is malicious. And so forth.

No one tries to marginalize the Catalans. Like I explain in detail in the article. And explained all of the comments I replied to you I believe....I am unsure if you red the article...

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

to live in Amsterdam for 15 years or more only speaking English, but I wouldn't expect to fully integrate in the Netherlands if I refuse to learn any Dutch.


Sure, could be the case, but again Spanish is also an official language of Catalonia. English is not an official language in Netherlands. Also I am not talking about situations in which you want to integrate into the Catalan culture, but random situations where you interact with the Catalan people who will not speak Spanish if you only understand Spanish.

You need to realize that Catalan speakers have been repressed throughout history. Lots of people have been fined, abused, mistreated, beaten or even imprisoned just for speaking their language.


Yes I explain this in the article. But this is the far past. Why drag this into the present and create these cancerous situations between people?

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

Would you complain about that? Would you really ask them to change their language and start speaking English just for you?


I came across this exact situation. Yes they spoke English. In Romania where I am from, if 1 of the people in a group does not speak Romanian and the rest speak English, we speak English. Always.

if I want to be part of this group, then it's me the one that has to learn their language, not the other way around.


I understand this reasoning too, but in Catalonia everyone speaks Spanish fluently. If I speak the one of the official languages of Catalonia, Spanish, and the rest refuse to speak it, isn't that rude?

in reply to TROM

indeed It's rude for some people because some Catalans view Spanish (or French in Northern Catalonia) as a foreign language, a language that has been imposed on us, and certainly it has been imposed. So if you live here and you refuse to learn anything of Catalan, then it could be viewed as something disrespectful for some of us.

Perhaps this is viewed differently in Romania, and that's ok, but here in Catalonia, plenty of people see it this way.

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in reply to TROM

@trom @tio@social.trom.tf @jo No, it’s not, simply because we are at our home, besides if we all speak Spanish or French it’s because of centuries of imposition, not by choice. What’s extremely rude is living 10 years + in a place, not speaking the local language AND calling the locals rude for not adapting to YOU. Anyway, I don’t care the least if people like that think we are rude or call us that, I know our place, history and right.
in reply to Paula Papaia

Paula the Muslims who were in Catalonia before Catalans arrived had to leave or ingest the Catalan language. Unfortunately all human history is like that - language is imposed in this way in most cases.

It is ugly, but if you think the solution is to marginalize those who do not speak Catalan, I am afraid this goes against your goal. First you have to understand why the Catalan language is not spoken by many people, to get why people refuse to speak Catalan or do not care. I am an outsider and everyone I know thinks like me. Would be good to talk to these people and understand form them in order to adapt your strategies.

We can all point the finger at each other and yell "rude", but we don't change anything unless we learn to talk to each other and find a way forward for all of us.

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

So the cause why I do not speak Catalan, or so many foreigners who come to Catalonia, is because of France and Spain? Sure, Franco imposed Spanish to Catalonia but that was decades ago, what can you do about it now?

The reason many people do not speak Catalan is what I explained in the article (most likely). Poverty, migration, tourism, the Trade Society itself, etc..

in reply to Backhand Topspin 🟨

We, Catalans don't speak Catalan to exclude foreigners or anything like that.


That is the end result. Regardless of the intention.

Why do we have to stop speaking our own language in our own country?


You don't have to. But if you know a common language why not use that? I do it all the time. I speak English or Romanian depending on the situation, regardless what tribe I'm in.